Being possessive might be a personality being appreciated by some females if you are in a monogamous relationship. However, if you are a swinger couple in an open relationship, possessiveness is not a good character. It could be a major obstacle for your relationship. In threesomes, a possessive person can also be a huge buzz-kill for all. If you are interested in threesomes, while you have this character, I suggest you to find a way to abandon it, or you won’t be able to enjoy a nice threesome.
Why am I so certain with it? Because I had such experience with my husband. Possessiveness and swing seem to be two contradictory personality. When they exist in one person, it can be very difficult for that person to enjoy a nice swinger lifestyle. My husband is the lucky one to be blessed with those two personalities. He used to be a major supporter of monogamous relationship. Unfortunately, he is in love with me, a swinglifestyle keeper. He was exposed to many kinky things, mainly threesomes. I was the one told him many experiences of mine having couple dating. He was intrigued by it. That was also my intention and he got hooked. Despite knowing his bad habit of being possessiveness, I decided to cure this stubborn disease of his.
First, he couldn’t even handle me pleasing myself when watching porn. After done so many times in front of him, he finally found a way to accept it and even got turned on by it. This was my first step. My second step was taking him to a bar and pretended to be single. I asked him to sit from a relatively far distance from me and watch me flirt with other guys. There were a few times when he went over and grabbed my hands and kicked the guy on his face. But after a few practices, he took it rationally. I thought it was time to take out the real thing.
We downloaded a tinder for swingers app and found a guy who was really cute. After a few conversations, I invited him over to our house. After dinner, we started to fool around with each other. Well, it was strictly all about me. They were both straight guys and agreed that there will be no body contact with each other. When things got hotter, we decided to move to bed. I was undressed by the third man while my husband was kissing me all over. When I gave him my mouth, the third man tried to take my vagina. He grabbed my ass and tried to penetrate me. I watched the face of my husband suddenly turning red. He opened his eyes widely. I tried to suck him harder and turn his attention, but is didn’t work. Mu husband punched the other man in his face and he went directly to the floor. The threesome didn’t turn well obviously. He doesn’t want to have a threesome anymore.